12824.) I honestly wish that you would just dissapear right now.

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and take me with you.

12641.) i made a decision yesterday. i’m not in love with you anymore. and i feel so free

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This makes absolutely no sense to me, you cant just decide to be in love with someone one day and not the next, it don’t work like that. If it does, than it’s not love. Love cant be decided just by you not wanting to no more, it’s really hard.

Love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely.

giiiiinn:

Have you ever been it to the scene wherein you’re flanked by moving on and being in despair?  The puzzled instances when someone has been up for you on your darkest hours, someone who willingly listens to your rants even though they were always the same, they try their best to comfort you and because they do those things, you “fall” for them without doubts that it could be just an infatuation; you think that they were the best people that came just because they were there for you in your miserable days.

I am guilty of being one of those people who told themselves that they are okay even though they know that they are not and, I regretted it. So, I longed for someone better than who I was with before just so the pain in me would go away, well, that’s what I thought stupidly. I was easily infatuated with some guy, who was there for me when someone broke my heart.

Well, knowing that the new guy was all that good to me at first, commitment came without being by the three-month rule. Things went fine; I even thought that I forgot almost everything about the guy who went away. It even came to the point that I can almost say that I have moved on already. Fighting over it, that’s what I always tell to myself.

At that time, I was totally wary about my dealings; I was not being myself roughly all the time because I was naively anxious having the paranoia of being broken again.

Days, weeks, months came and still, I thought everything would be completely tolerable, I thought that he’s going to be the one. Yet, everything has been left to thoughts that were not always near to what has been really happening.

Apparently, things did not work out.

First, being your own self is one of the key to a good relationship, it’s simply like your partner does not love you for being you, he only loves you because he believed that all along, who he was with was the real you. And, you’re only fooling yourself because eventually, you’ll get tired of pretending and soon he’ll learn about your real attitude. As the cliché goes, it’s better to be hated for who you really are than be loved for who you are not.

Next, never be scared to be left by your partner cause really, if he loves you, he will never leave you unless there are very strong reasons for him to do so. And when he does, never run after him. That’s masochism.

Lastly, love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely. It’s just a waste of time and it will never be called love because it’s just a cover up. Either you’ll hurt the new one or you’ll hurt yourself. To conclude, it’s never right.

So, I have been taught, regrets always fall when everything’s been said and done. It’s human to commit mistakes; those are made so that you’ll learn from it and eventually grow, still those will never be excuses to make one. It’s not about how hard you hit, it’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward.

Good Advice!